Please understand that I am NOT looking for a boyfriend or love or anything remotely looking like that at all. I am madly in love with my husband, this is just for fun and pleasure, and it's a HUGE power trip for me. I have had a couple of experiences that were mostly okay. My husband and I live in a 24/7 FLR (Female Led Relationship) and we absolutely love it. This is OUR journey, but I'm the one very much in control and making decisions on who is of interest to me and who isn't. If you come at me aggressively for sex I will block. I need to know you, I don't have transactional sex, I'm not a . If I can't get to know you a little bit on a NORMAL and organic way it won't happen. We will meet NON-SEXUALLY for drinks or coffee. My husband is always present, or at a minimum in an outside room or in the lobby, that's a me decision at the time and he MAY BE involved for my pleasure especially if you happen to be "male friendly."

My Ideal Person PLEASE READ!

If you're into or open to TRANS it's an automatic NO from me.
My age range is 45 - about 64.
If you’re not at least 6’ tall or a tall 5-11 it will most likely be a no go!

If you’re looking for ANYTHING beyond short-term fun don’t waste your time.

Understand, I control what happens sexually. I want a man who can be a man and take control, but that isn't about dominance or submission. You do not tell my husband what to do, he is my submissive not yours. It would be great if you're at a minimum "male friendly" because it opens up more possibilities, but not a deal breaker.

Be respectful of me and my husband. Don't be pushy. Don't push sex sex sex. Want to be a laid back friend and we will be able to move positively along. And please don't be in a hurry. I work crazy hours and my husband is out of town often and nothing will happen when he is gone.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

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