Experienced kinkster/swinger/hedonist seeks adventurous life partner. I'm open to hookups & dating but ultimately I'd like to find a partner for a real committed, romantic LTR (possibly marriage) that's normal in every way aside from the fact that we play with others together. NOT looking for  poly/open; fun as a couple only (think hotwife/stag/vixen, swapping, parties) Probably not the place I'll find this, but ya never know... Aside from the kinky stuff I'm a divorced single dad, soon-to-be empty nester, nerdy, musician. Into conversation, movies/tv, music, theater, pop culture. I'm indoorsy, but like walks, occasional hikes, the beach/ocean. Sensitive, intelligent, passionate, you should be too. I'm empathetic & politically liberal. Spirituality is cool, but religion is not for me. I'm not into sports but can be persuaded to watch a game now & then. I have a few tattoos and pierced ears. 420 friendly. If it matters *I'm short (5'6") & chubby* but I'm open to any size