I'm married and separated (for 10 years) with s in high school. Even though I could divorce, I choose to stay married to take care of my responsibilities... It's just who I am. Being a committed father and professional, I don't have a lot of free time, and the time that I do have is precious. I am not looking to change this. Having said this, I wouldn't mind finding a friend to share things with discreetly. And I am safe, dedicated, a good friend... I miss intimacy... But am not looking for a one night stand without friendship and trust. I'm well educated, financially secure, and I don't want to change my life... At least until my s are in college. What else?

My Ideal Person Friendship is a foundation for anything more. One night stands don't interest me. Hard to find chemistry with just "hello, my place or yours?" Ideally someone intelligent and professional, no drama, has a life and isn't particularly looking to change that. Mutual respect and discretion. If we connect... Affectionate, loves to kiss, is clean, wants to explore new things, and no real pain (giving or receiving; what's the point of that?!). Passionate and not afraid to let go and be yourself.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
A secluded beach house, the sun going down, a cocktail and
lawn chair at waters edge... We hold hands and walk into
the ocean, passionately kiss in the ebb and flow of the water.
Watching the sun dance off the beach, the trees, peaceful...
Suddenly, we feel an undercurrent of cold water near our
legs, and turn to look at the sun... And there, not 8 feet
away is a porpoise, looking at us, rocking back and looking
at us. And then slowly sinks into the ocean.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Grace Kelly maybe... Or Ingrid Bergman. Classic beauty.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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