I have a brand new set of divorce papers and I'm ready to be free. I'm ready to explore the things that bring me pleasure and the joy of bringing pleasure to others. I don't have a lot of experience so tell me what you like. If it sounds interesting I'll probably try it. I do prefer to meet in a neutral location to see if there's a mutual attraction before making plans for sex. Now that I've tried this site out for a couple months I have a better idea of what I'm looking for. I'd like something that's ongoing, not necessarily regular. I get off on discovering what my partner enjoys. I can't do that with a one night stand. I want to learn where to touch you, what your fantasies are, and how to make you feel oh so good. In return I ask for some common courtesy. I'm not your wife, I'm not your girlfriend. I AM a good woman and deserve to be treated as such. I'd love to find someone who likes spending time with me, maybe a movie or a walk or just hang out and talk for a while. I'm not here to hurt anyone. If you have a significant other who would cry or stab someone if they found out about me, then I am not the woman for you. I suggest you put on your big girl panties and talk to her/him about what you need instead.

My Ideal Person I am not perfect. There are many more things I hate about myself than things I like. My philosophy is that no one should be expected to be perfect. I try to focus on what I like about someone and the rest doesn't matter. My ideal person would have much the same viewpoint.

That being said, here are some things that turn me on. I love a good Ken doll line, my favorite part of a man's body. I like forearms. I like the way soft hair feels brushing across my skin. I like a smile that I can see in your eyes. I like a guy that knows how to take control while still respecting my opinion. I like someone I can have an intelligent conversation with before or after sex.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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