AFTER SEVERAL YEARS AS A GOLD MEMBER, WE HAVE ALOWED OUR MEMBERSHIP TO DOWNGRADE TO STANDARD SO....WE CANNOT VIEW PROFILES NOR WRITE BUT WE CAN ANSWER YOUR EMAILS TO US. We are a friendly, stable, clean, discreet, HWP,("no little extra padding here") in shape, long time married professional couple looking for other similar couples. We are the type of couple no one would suspect to be in this lifestyle. We enjoy the finer things in life but can be comfortable in jeans and tennis shoes too. We want to become friends and be comfortable with each other and then, if the chemistry is right, possibly share some intimate moments. We are in our mid fifties, ren are gone and can travel at will. We are not looking for a "slam bam thank you ma'am" and on to the next conquest. If that's what you are looking for, we are not the ones for you. We're interested in COUPLES, who like us, are CLEAN, POLITE, FRIENDLY, DISCREET, have a little class, reaably articulate and can write a complete sentence. If you have displayed your faces, in 'compromising' positions and poses over AFF for the world to see...we are not sure you share our ideas of discretion...'cause who knows who is looking and talking. NO DRAMA OF ANY TYPE. IF YOU ARE NOT SURE YOU WANT TO BE IN THE LIFE STYLE, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT US!! Sorry, but we have encountered tears and tempers in the past and quite frankly, it is rude and inconsiderate. If we detect ANY drama or issues, we will politely ask you to leave or excuse ourselves from you company. We do not want to mediate your "issues" nor become your marriage counselor.

My Ideal Person We regret all the do's, don'ts and requirments on our profile. You would think most of it would just be common sense, but after several years on this site, we find it necessary include them.

Looking for like minded COUPLES for FRIENDSHIP and SEXUAl RELATIONSHIP. Especially those who understand the 'game of sex' and are erotic, sensual, sexy and NOT the "just love to f**k" types. There is a huge difference in those two concepts...at least from our perspective.

Please be able and willing to COMMUNICATE initially via email and phone. YOU MUST HAVE PICS ON YOUR PROFILE OR BE WILLING TO SEND PICS!! WE WILL NOT NOT MEET ANYONE WHO IS NOT WILLING TO TALK AND SEND PICS BEFORE WE MEET. Must be very DISCREET and CLEAN(actually, if it's necessary to remind you about cleanliness and personal hygiene...please don't contct us). For things to work well, we think it best you enjoy being in our company out of the bedroom as well as in the bedroom and visa versa.

Ladies and Gentlemen...while we respect all persons and who they are as individuals we must be honest. If you are so introverted you cannot engage in a reasonably fluent conversation with us, you will likely not enjoy our company nor us yours.

Gentlemen..foreplay is very important, so with that said...she enjoys men who possess some measure of ability to seduce or atleast, the desire to try. The meet, greet and "let's go do it because that's what we are all here for" mentality will not work...sorry!!